After Loss, They Found Love — And Made It Official in Under 15 Minutes
Why a simple “Sign and Go” wedding in Florida may be just right for your next chapter
On July 3, I had the honor of officiating a quiet, meaningful wedding in Zephyrhills, Florida for a couple whose story spoke volumes without ever needing a stage.
Steve, 76, had been married for 40 years before becoming a widower. Vanesa, a gracious and joyful woman originally from the Philippines, had also lost her spouse. They found each other later in life — and together, they chose love, companionship, and a brand-new beginning.
They didn’t want a big ceremony. No elaborate setup, no crowd. Just what was legally required to be married in the state of Florida.
And that’s exactly what we did — right in their apartment.
They chose a Sign and Go wedding, a brief but complete legal ceremony that includes everything required under Florida law: mutual intent, willingness, and the pronouncement of marriage. We scheduled a time that worked for us both — 11:00 a.m. — and the entire process took less than 15 minutes.
But it wasn’t without heart.
Steve and Vanesa brought rings and chose to include a short ring exchange. Afterward, Vanesa asked for a few photos to remember the day. Though the ceremony was already complete, Steve’s son — who had just learned of the wedding the day before — took photos as they reenacted the ring exchange. His quiet support and warm smile said it all: he was happy for his dad.
So what exactly is a Sign and Go wedding?
It’s the simplest way to legally marry in Florida — no fanfare, no formal ceremony. Just the essentials:
- You bring your valid Florida marriage license
- We meet at the location of your choice — even your own home in Zephyrhills, Wesley Chapel, or nearby
- I confirm your IDs, complete my notary section, and apply my seal
- I conduct a brief but meaningful ceremony that includes:
- Your clear intent and willingness to marry
- A pronouncement that you are now legally married
- Your marriage becomes official — legally and joyfully
This type of ceremony is perfect for:
- Widows and widowers ready for a new chapter
- Seniors who prefer simplicity over stress
- Private couples who want something quiet, heartfelt, and legal
- Anyone who wants to get married without the pressure of planning an event
Looking for a simple, meaningful way to say “I do”?
I offer Sign and Go weddings throughout Zephyrhills, Wesley Chapel, and the surrounding areas — ceremonies that honor your love, without the fuss.
Call or text me at 813-239-4117 or visit NotaryNearMe-Florida.com to schedule.
Steve and Vanesa will soon begin their life together overseas — Steve has never been to the Philippines, but he’s preparing to move there with his new bride. And while their wedding was small in size, it was full of intention, respect, and a sense of peace that only comes from choosing love the second time around.
They didn’t need a venue.
They didn’t need a crowd.
They just needed each other — and a few minutes to make it official.
And now, they begin their next chapter with Joy for a Lifetime.
