Do You Know the Five Golden Rules?
You’ve probably heard of the Golden Rule — “Do unto others as you would have them do unto you.” It’s a beautiful foundation for marriage itself: treating each other with love, kindness, and respect.
But when it comes to planning a small, joy-filled wedding, there’s another set of golden rules you’ll want to know — especially if you’re considering an elopement.
What exactly is an elopement today? In today’s world, an elopement simply means an intimate, small wedding — often just the two of you (and maybe a few loved ones) — focused entirely on your love story, without the stress of a big event.
A small ceremony can be just as meaningful — and unforgettable — as a grand celebration... when you follow these five golden rules.
Rule 1: Prioritize Meaning Over Perfection
Your elopement isn’t about impressing anyone. It’s about celebrating your love story in a way that feels true to you. Focus on what matters most — a heartfelt exchange of vows, a quiet prayer together, or a special keepsake to mark the day. When you prioritize meaning over perfection, you create memories that feel authentic, joyful, and lasting.
Rule 2: Choose a Setting That Feels Like You (and Think About the Weather!)
Where you say "I do" sets the tone for your entire day. Pick a location that resonates with you — whether it’s a peaceful beach, a cozy garden, a charming little chapel, or even a dear friend's living room.
Tip: Consider the seasons and the weather! Indoor venues offer peace of mind year-round, especially during Florida’s unpredictable summer showers (and yes, even hurricane season!). A comfortable setting means less stress and more joy.
Rule 3: Personalized Vows Are Optional — Not Stressful
Personalized vows can add a beautiful, heartfelt touch to your ceremony — and if you’d like, I offer help in crafting them. But don’t feel pressured. If writing your own vows feels overwhelming, that’s perfectly okay. You can use traditional vows, select meaningful quotes, or simply speak from the heart. The most important thing is that your ceremony reflects you, not a checklist.
Rule 4: Plan a Simple but Special Celebration
After the ceremony, take time to celebrate your new beginning! It doesn’t have to be elaborate — a romantic dinner for two, a small party with family and friends, or even a private dance in your living room.
Turn on your favorite playlist — maybe "Celebrate" by Earth, Wind & Fire or a Bruno Mars
love song — and create a soundtrack for your first evening as newlyweds. Adding a little celebration, no matter how simple, makes the day feel complete and joyfully unforgettable.
Rule 5: Capture the Moment — Even If It’s DIY
You’ll want to remember this beautiful day for years to come. If hiring a professional photographer fits your budget, that’s wonderful. But even if it doesn’t, today’s smartphones are incredible! Ask a few trusted friends to capture photos and videos during the ceremony. You’ll be amazed at how meaningful those candid memories will become — and they’ll add a layer of authentic joy to your story.
Your Elopement, Your Joyful Story
At Notary Near Me Florida, I specialize in creating ceremonies that are joyful, personal, and stress-free. Whether you're planning a quiet elopement or a small, intimate wedding, I would be honored to help you celebrate your love story — your way.
Ready to start planning your perfect elopement? Contact me today to begin creating your unforgettable moment.
Helping you create a Joy for a Lifetime.
The Golden Rule reminds us to treat others with love, and these Five Golden Rules remind us to celebrate love — joyfully, authentically, and beautifully. Your day doesn’t have to be big to be unforgettable. It just needs to be filled with love — and a little golden joy.
