Love Without Sacrifice: The One Thing That Makes Every Wedding Last

Claudia Mitchell-McLeod • August 14, 2025

“If I give all I possess to the poor and give over my body to hardship that I may boast, but do not have love, I gain nothing.” — 1 Corinthians 13:3 (NIV) (bible.com)

From the King James perspective, it reads: “And though I bestow all my goods to feed the poor, … and have not charity, it profiteth me nothing.” (bibleref.com)

Maria and Daniel had been married for thirty-seven years. This evening wasn’t their wedding—it was a vow renewal, held on a quiet dock as the sky turned gold and rose. Their children and grandchildren stood by, feeling the weight of years upheld by love, weathered but unbroken.

Their journey wasn’t without trials. When Daniel lost his job, Maria sold her grandmother’s heirloom necklace to keep them afloat. Years later, when Maria faced a health crisis, Daniel learned how to braid her hair, easing her with a simple act of tenderness. Those sacrifices were meaningful—but only because love stayed at the center.

As Notary Near Me Florida and wedding officiant with Joy for a Lifetime, I had the honor of guiding them in renewing their vows. Maria's voice quivered as she repeated, “For better or for worse…”—words whose depth had grown through every ordinary, extraordinary day together.

A vow renewal can be whatever your heart desires. For some, like Maria and Daniel, it’s a small and intimate ceremony shared with only a few family members. For others, it’s a grand celebration—especially for couples who didn’t have their dream wedding the first time. And it doesn’t have to wait for a milestone anniversary like 25 or 50 years; it can be an annual observance, a beautiful reminder to keep love alive and front and center.

1 Corinthians 13:3—whether read as “love” (NIV) or “charity” (KJV)—underscores the powerful truth that even the grandest gestures lack meaning without heartfelt love. Weddings and vow renewals are not mere displays; they are expressions of commitment, especially when the vows are lived in the everyday rhythm of life.

Every couple’s story deserves to be honored—with intention, warmth, and faith. At Notary Near Me Florida through Joy for a Lifetime, I create ceremonies that reflect your journey. Whether it’s your wedding day, an annual vow renewal, or your 50th anniversary, I’ll help you craft a moment that speaks to your hearts—and to those who share it.